NARCISSISTS ARE EVERYWHERE, AND THEY ARE GENIUS, DANGEROUS, STEALTHY PREDATORS OF DESTRUCTION
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NARCISSISM SEEMS TO BE A RELATIVELY YOUNG STUDY OF HUMAN BEHAVIOR OR SOCIAL SCIENCE, FROM WHICH PSYCHOLOGISTS LEARN AS THEY GO ALONG. HOWEVER, THIS IS NOT A STUDY STRICTLY ACCORDING TO THE DOGMAS OF PSYCHOLOGY. UNTIL RECENTLY, I DID NOT EVEN KNOW THAT THIS MISCONSTRUED ‘PERSONALITY DISORDER’ EXISTS. I THOUGHT A “NARCISSIST” IS ‘JUST’ SOMEONE WHO HAS A HIGH REGARD FOR HIMSELF. I WAS DREADFULLY MISINFORMED. SO, THIS IS AN ARTICLE ON MY OWN RESEARCH AND OBSERVATION OF THE PERSONIFIED, CHOSEN BELIEFS AND PERCEPTIONS THAT ARE INGRAINED IN THE MINDS OF NARCISSISTS, AND WHICH GIVE THEM THE ‘RIGHT’ TO AGGRESSIVELY DO AS THEY PLEASE WITHOUT CONSIDERING OTHER PEOPLE OR THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR ACTIONS.
PSYCHOLOGISTS TRY TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN CERTAIN ‘DEGREES’ OF ‘NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDERS;’ MAKING SOME LESS DANGEROUS THAN OTHERS. HOWEVER, IN MY EXPERIENCE WITH NARCISSISTS, I FOUND THAT NARCISSISM CONSISTS OF A CAUSTIC COMBINATION OF DELIBERATELY DEHUMANIZING OTHERS, PLANNING AND EXECUTING SADISTIC DESTRUCTION, WILLFULLY MANIFESTING VARIOUS PERSONALITIES THAT FIT DIFFERENT SITUATIONS, A LACK OF MORALITY, PASSIVE AS WELL AS ACTIVE AGGRESSION, AND A LACK OF CONSCIENCE.
THE PSYCHOLOGIST ERIC FROMM NAMED SUCH A PERSON “A GRANDIOSE SADISTIC PSYCHOPATH.” HOWEVER, TO THIS ACCURATE DESCRIPTION, I ADD EXTREME SECRECY AND MASTERMINDED UNDERHANDEDNESS, WHICH PSYCHOLOGISTS CALL “A COVERT NARCISSIST.” THE TYPE OF NARCISSISM I AM TALKING ABOUT ALSO MANIFESTS ITSELF IN HYPER SEXUALITY; SECRETIVE AND OBVIOUS DESTRUCTION THAT STEMS FROM SADISM, (OR DERIVING PLEASURE FROM THE SUFFERING THEY INFLICT ON OTHERS,) AND OTHER SEVERELY DISTURBED “HUMAN BEHAVIOR” AS DISCUSSED IN THIS ARTICLE; ALL COMBINED IN THE SAME INDIVIDUAL.
ERIC FROMM DESCRIBED THIS TYPE OF DISORDER AS ‘MALIGNANT NARCISSISM, REPRESENTING THE QUINTESSENCE OF EVIL. IT IS THE MOST SEVERE PATHOLOGY AND THE ROOT OF THE MOST VICIOUS DESTRUCTIVENESS AND INHUMANITY.” IN OTHER WORDS, THIS NARCISSIST IS ONE OF THE MOST DANGEROUS INDIVIDUALS THAT WALK THE EARTH. AND TO MY GREAT DISMAY, I HAD TO RECENTLY LEARN I HAVE NEARLY FIFTY YEARS’ EXPERIENCE ON SHARING MY LIFE WITH A WHOLE CLAN OF THEM.
IT IS TRULY INCONCEIVABLE THAT MAN, WHO WAS CREATED IN THE IMAGE OF GOD, CAN BECOME SO THOROUGHLY PERVERTED AND INHERENTLY EVIL. HOWEVER, KNOWLEDGE OF THE MENACE OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE HELPED ME TO STEP INTO THE LIGHT OF TRUTH, WHICH JESUS SAID, WILL SET US FREE.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT TO WIKIPEDIA AND INTERNET PSYCHOLOGISTS FOR THEIR VALUABLE STUDIES AND VIDEOS ON ‘NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER’
THE FOLLOWING IS A SHORTLIST OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE TO IDENTIFY THESE ASSAILANTS AND TO GET FREE FROM THEM ON AT LEAST A SPIRITUAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL LEVEL
¨ Stop seeing abuse as love and care; narcissists are unscrupulous sadists that deliberately harm and humiliate you to trauma-bond you to them.
¨ Stop saying they are “good;” they are skilled pretenders with double characters that lead double lives. The destroyer that makes you suffer is the real person.
¨ Stop thinking they feel sorry for you; they have no conviction of sin and do not feel remorse or empathy.
¨ Stop believing the “abuse never happened;” they expertly alternate between care and abuse to hoodwink you.
¨ Stop the guilt and sympathy; they carefully targeted you and calculate their every move against you.
¨ Stop hiding the shame they caused and shifted unto you; they brainwashed you to cover their destruction.
¨ Stop believing you are guilty and unfair when you set boundaries; they choose to keep you in a matrix of confusion and deception. And don’t think they will honor any boundaries, they do exactly as they please.
¨ Stop believing you are mean, selfish, silly, or jealous; they assume entitlement or the right to molest children, fornicate, adulterate, violate, ravage, deceive, steal, etcetera, and lead double lives “just because they can.”
¨ Stop believing you are the crazy one; they confuse you by distorting truth, and misplacing and moving your stuff.
¨ Stop blaming other people for what happened; they are clever saboteurs that make you overlook their infidelity and inconceivable, underhanded destruction to create enmity between you and them.
¨ Stop thinking your are mad to feel trapped; they always inspect and control your whole life to keep you hostage.
¨ Stop believing you are alone; they deliberately and systematically isolated you.
¨ Stop repeating yourself; it’s a cruel mind game to disrespect and invalidate you, and provoke you to anger.
¨ Stop trying to explain; they’re not deaf or retarded but vampirously feed off your hopelessness and frustration.
¨ Stop believing their false accusations and think you are confused and stupid because you cannot understand what they are doing to you; they are stealthy masterminds that are reflecting their sin unto you.
¨ Stop falling for the pretence of stupidity and misunderstanding; it’s just another mind game. They are secretive, evil geniuses that derive pleasure from continuously messing with your mind.
¨ Stop trusting them and giving them chances; they distort truth and misrepresent reality, and so define the way you think and perceive them, other people, and life in general.
¨ Stop hoping they will come to their senses; they choose to be immoral, empty shells filled with self-importance.
¨ Stop expecting them to confess their sin and tell you the truth; they are habitual liars and crafty puppeteers that sadistically torture and humiliate their victims on all levels of life.
¨ Stop believing you can talk sense to them; they are expert blame shifters that intentionally pull you into arguments to open yourself to their provocation, disrespect, and violence, while they mirror their filth unto you. All kinds of attention feed their ‘magnificence’ and strengthen their power and control over you.
¨ Stop accepting their clever excuses, illogic explanations, and empty promises; they choose to remain guilty as they will never change. They have no intention to accept responsibility, honor their word, atone, or do good.
¨ Stop living in denial and face the facts; Jesus said you will know them by their [unrepentant] fruit.
¨ Stop forgiving their unrepented crimes; to them, your constant forgiveness translates into a licence to sin
¨ Stop thinking there is something wrong with you as they cannot smell stench or taste bad food; they have desensitized themselves to consume every dirty thing and commit every indecent act.
¨ Stop thinking you are haunted by ‘other’ people; they derive their ‘sixth-sense’ and other abilities from demons.
¨ Stop being helpless and hopeless; Jesus suffered, died, and was resurrected to set you free.
There are uninformed people who minimize and even nullify the lifelong suffering of narcissistic abuse by saying narcissism merely exists in bouts of superficial, selfish behavior. It is allegedly not the dangerous personality disorder that psychologists define it to be. Others ‘soften’ the secret crimes of narcissists by alleging that they are not responsible for their actions because they ‘inherited’ this ‘incurable illness,’ and cannot help themselves. Well, it is certain that no one can control a real disease, and narcissists are in complete control of their emotions, decisions, and actions.
If something outright demonic such as the non-stop torture and secret corruption of narcissists enter the scene, marriage and family ties to such perverted people become impossible. Narcissism is a common yet deadly “personality disorder” where ‘composed,’ ‘caring,’ ‘pleasant,’ ‘tender-hearted,’ ‘helpful,’ ‘loving’ masterminds of both genders, often described as “gentlemen and ladies,” choose to exert ultimate domination over their trusting victims.
Narcissists choose how and when to ‘bestow’ good behavior on both outsiders and their victims, so that it seems impossible to them that such ‘wonderful’ people can be living a double life of both good and evil. It is one of the worst conditions in which victims can find themselves, as hardly anyone would believe that they are being abused.
Either grandiosely, (overtly, flamboyantly, or openly,) or covertly, (secretly and underhandedly,) or in combination of both as I experienced, narcissists distort the truth and context of situations to undermine their victims psychologically and physically to dismantle their lives.
Behind their perfect pretences and flawless façade of nicety hides a disturbed, arrogant, and dangerous being. Worst of all, they effortlessly pretend Christian and other religiosity, and can put up holy faces that shame the angels. But “do what thou willst” is the whole of their law, just as in all other forms of Satanism.
When you interact with a narcissist, you are facing off with the brilliance of Satan. He outwardly pretends to be the ‘good’ angel but inwardly, he is driven by everything false and evil. Because narcissists lack ethics and moral conscience, they believe they have the right to do to others exactly as they please, as often as they want, and for as long as they choose. Thus, they never do anything good without the intention of using it for bad and to glorify themselves. They are incapable of sincerity and fidelity, and they never speak the truth about anything except to destroy trust and relationships. Narcissists usually pretend selflessness and humility, but they will never ask forgiveness except to fool people. Their lives are networks of secret agendas and dirty deeds to incarcerate the unwary in their toxicity.
Many people testify they have been under the deliberate, escalating intimidation of narcissistic abuse for nearly all their lives, because this is not a death-trap narcissists allow them to escape from. Although victims sincerely and wholeheartedly marry, love, and honestly try to help their deeply troubled “loved ones,” victims must realize they will always remain mere conveniences and utensils to them. Narcissists live to exploit all vulnerabilities, goodness, and innocence. The more they can flatten and trample their unsuspecting victims, the more powerful they think they become.
Narcissism is incurable because these severely disturbed people choose to never learn from their mistakes. Thus, they never change. They deny all responsibility and accountability because they adore themselves for ruling their victims as “gods,” not merely as deliberately destructive human beings. An important aspect of personal change we must always keep in mind is that the loving God of the Bible gave everyone a free will because He never takes captives to heaven. Hence, Jesus never changes people without their consent. Although narcissists easily pretend to be “His saved children,” their premeditated, unrepentant bad behavior glorifies and magnifies them to such and extent that they place themselves beyond all guilt, reason, and reach.
In Eph. 4:18-24, Paul described such abusers as follows, “[Although they pretend otherwise,] they walk in the futility of their minds, [which result in] having their understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God because of their ignorance [concerning the immoral state they occupy,] and the blindness of their hearts. They [have grieved the conviction of the Holy Spirit for so long, Jn. 16:8-12,] they are past feeling, having given themselves over to lewdness, [dirt and immorality,] to work all uncleanness with greediness.”
The insatiable greed of narcissists for more and more power and control manifests in the multilevel torture of their victims. This never stops as they are so “past feeling,” they have absolutely no remorse for their sins or empathy for their victims. So, they became incapable of sincerity, truth, regret, sympathy, or any other form of morality.
What’s more, the greed that results from being “past feeling,” manifests in the terrible immorality of the vindictive destruction of life and property, cruelty to people and animals, child molestation, serial adultery, fornication, alcoholism, drug and gambling addiction, and no amount of money, power, control, or anything else can ever be enough for them. They always swallow everything and especially other people whole. Prov. 30:15 explains this self-serving greed as follows, “The leech [or harlot] has two daughters, Give and Give… [for nothing and nobody else will ever] be enough!”
Multilevel endangerment and endless torture summarize the lives of the victims of narcissists. The secret lives of narcissists are based on disgrace, deception, blame-shifting, projection, and false accusation. Some said, “Whatever you say they do and are, is exactly what you will become when they open their mouths.” Their double lives are so extensive it is impossible to determine any boundaries in the lives of these evil geniuses. What’s more, the healthy boundaries their victims set for them are merely more challenges to flatten the resistance of their victims.
Sincere disciples of Jesus Christ will always strive to live by the Truth of His Word and in obedience to His Moral Law. So, according to His Word, they usually confront, plead, bargain, submit, withstand, fight, and forgive a “million” times through the years; always in the hope that God can change anyone, and that the abuse will end sooner or later. Sadly, that is uninformed, foolish faith. Their efforts to overcome and resolve the abuse is exactly what narcissists want.
Victims of narcissism hardly ever suspect they are merely an abundant “supply” of attention that puffs and feeds the self-perceived ‘invincibleness and magnificence’ of these demoniacs. To deceive and control, narcissists will even grovel and cry a river of tears when there is no other outcome, but their “regret” and promises always turn up empty.
Narcissistic abuse is on a multilevel because they are out to destroy their victims emotionally and physically. They especially target the spiritual lives of their victims as their nonstop torture is designed to push their victims into a desperate, faithless state far away from God. So don’t be surprised to find that while you were praying for them in church, they were watching porn and indulging in orgies in your home – which they will deny until That Day when Jesus returns!
Narcissists are not ‘ordinary’ hapless criminals. Powered by strong demons, it seems they have a “sixth sense” that protect them, help them hide their sin, and make them remain in control of situations. They don’t have to learn their extremely complicated and underhanded behaviors. The demons that indwell them empower and lead them.
Thus, it is not unusual that victims are harassed by demons keeping them awake at night, etcetera. It often ceases when they please their abusers and manifest in various ways when they displease them. Victims do not recognize this until God revels it to them. They usually think the weird things they experience are coincidence or done by ‘other’ people who hate them. But although narcissists might even pretend to be born again believers, they are actually secret Satanists that use demons to do their dirty work and attack their victims from the spirit world as well.
Narcissists take on the character that suits the situation while cleverly demonizing their victims so that they can hide behind their so-called own “innocence” and “suffering.” Pretence, entitlement or arrogance, blame shifting, lies, shaming, gaslighting or cruel mind games, manipulation, and violence are their shadows. By blending these nuances of narcissism into a state of utter confusion, they brainwash their victims to see abuse as love and violence as care. In this way, they distort truth to such an extent that they actually define the ‘reality’ of their victims. Their reality is what they want their victims to believe.
So, outsiders and even their victims hardly ever see them for what they really are because narcissists have perfected their game of “catch me if you can.” Disrespecting and invalidating their victims as human, they destroy their victims’ emotions and lives as part of this hilarious game. To constantly puff themselves, they smugly make it their mission to secretly cheat, confuse, and coerce their victims. (Coercion is to intimidate victims to obey their will.) The more confusion and chaos they commit, the more majestic they feel. They become ecstatic when they can, mostly secretly but also in public if they so choose, inflict pain and humiliation on their victims to watch them suffer. It is inconceivable but true that they view their devastation on the souls, personhood, names, and lives of their victims as private entertainment and self-empowerment. They vampirize or feed off the suffering and desperate reaction of their victims. Both negative and positive reaction to their abuse stimulate their self-worship and increase their underhanded acts of destruction.
Narcissists are not mentally ill. They are in control of their thoughts, decisions, emotions, and actions. They deliberately choose to be two entities in one. The pleasant person inside of them chooses to overwhelm others with niceness, while masterly caging unsuspecting victims in the torture of the cruel beast that guides him.
Narcissists combine their split personalities and double lifestyles so perfectly, their victims hardly ever realize what is being done to them. Instead, through distorted reality and false perceptions, they see their abusers as “good people.” Even when narcissists lose interest in them and discard them, their victims still choose to see the “good” in them.
Mostly, narcissistic abuse alternate between outward reward such as gifts, attention, and compliments and psychological punishment such as belittling and emotional and physical neglect; supported by such violent outbursts that victims are too ashamed to tell anyone about it. Then, when narcissists roll the pain over into outward rewards again, love-deprived victims question their sanity by thinking such dangerous attacks could not really have happened, as everyone and everything around narcissists must shine outwardly. Lacking inward moral substance, narcissists confuse their victims to such a degree they eventually question their own sanity to think they are unloved and abused. Victims’ confrontation to resolve these terrible problems is a survival mechanism. But violently oppressed and loosened from reality, victims are then literally programmed to see it as maltreatment, while viewing narcissistic abuse as love and care.
Narcissists thrive on creating chaos. One bout of their abuse still rants and raves while they have already moved onto something worse. Depending on how they choose to carry out their manipulation to cover their immoral tracks, they pretend either supreme intelligence, ignorance, innocence, unbelievable stupidity, deafness, or anything in between.
They taunt and provoke their victims all the time, and with every opportunity, they illogically argue about everything. All the while, they secretly laugh themselves into stitches to think how stupid, unsuspecting, and defenceless their victims are. But note that such behavior is only reserved for their victims. Other people mostly see them as perfect human beings.
To narcissists, receiving forgiveness is a religious right and merely a licence to continue their torment. It is impossible to get narcissists to take responsibility for their actions, and to confess their sins and repent from their crimes.
They simply do not have decent, honorable lifestyles or Godly relationships in mind.
Þ They ignore the Holy Spirit’s conviction of sin just as they ignore their victims pleas for peace, repentance, and normality. Believing the promises of narcissists is like biting into a fluffy cloud. It is a pretence without substance.
Narcissists choose to be incapable of loving anyone but themselves. In the minds of narcissists, there is not an inkling to submit to anyone else or to God, although some might even water baptize themselves as “disciples” of Jesus to stay under the radar and to get deeper into the minds and lives of their victims. Neither will they repent from flattening the lives and souls of their victims. Everything is just about them. Even the good they do is just to feed their superiority. They expertly change everything good into bad for their victims because they continuously feed on their different types of destruction to supposedly become greater, stronger, and more important than before.
Narcissism is all about outward image. They don’t really care what God and their victims, whom they severely disrespect, think of them. All they need, is to see themselves as being “beautiful, rich, in control, and mighty.” They might even pretend to be perfectionists while they deliberately neglect personal hygiene as a means to offend and frustrate their victims. In the eyes of the world, they will do everything outwardly that can disguise their vain lifestyles of pretence and lies. But inwardly, there is a great emptiness, because there is no substance of character inside a narcissist. No morality. No bravery. No love. No allegiance. No sincerity. No trust. No empathy. Nothing. The minds, bodies, and lives of narcissists are empty shrines, which they built unto themselves. They live to splash money, fornicate, adulterate, manipulate, deceive, steal, insult, and stealthily destroy their victims.
It is said that the Russian dictator Stalin once demonstrated the method of trauma-bonding by plucking out all the feathers of a live chicken in front of his audience. He did it so callously and self-assured that no one understood the incredible cruelty of what he was doing. As the bird stood trembling, near death, bleeding, and in excruciating pain, he threw scraps of food at it, demonstrating how the tortured creature would always view him as its protector and provider to be utterly dependant on him. No one suspected that this was just one side of his sadistic nature. Secretly, he most probably also sacrificed chickens and other living things, humans especially, on the altar of the devil during satanic rituals. Yet, he always got away with it because he pretended to be such a nice guy and strong leader that everyone adored him.